Here is a nice “easy” question for all you gentlemen Punters: “How long should you last for during a booking?” As I said, easy, eh?
Of course this is impossible to answer, as we are all different and we feel differently on different days and with different people. However, this issue I shall look at in a future post called “Prowess”. However, in this article, I want to explore it more from a lady’s perspective.
I am sure I am not the only guy to have wondered as to what is the norm, as well as what is “expected” of us in a meeting.
No-one wants to seem inadequate or inexperienced to a professional lady, so I imagine the temptation is to go on for as long as is possible. However, how does this make the lady feel? Impressed? Satisfied? or just exhausted?
As there is only one possible way to answer this question, I decided to ask a few ladies I know personally, as well as a few I only know by email.
To be perfectly honest with you, it took me a while to ask some ladies, as I did not want it to seem like I was fishing for compliments. Either that or I was worried about what I might hear!
The general consensus was most ladies do not like it when a gent proceeds to “bang away” for the duration of the meeting. There are several reasons for this, such as:
- A lady wants to enjoy her work, not loathe it
- They want to enjoy variety in a booking: chat, foreplay, sex and intimacy
- If it is exhausting or painful, it affects a lady for the next bookings she has, even if she only sees one client a day
- If a gent shows no respect for her and her feelings, a lady no longer feels either safe or comfortable in the gentleman’s presence
“But hold on a minute!” I hear some of you cry, “we’re paying for the time and it is for us to do what we like, isn’t it?”. Well, to a point, I can understand why you might feel like this. However, I am sure the real gents amongst you would be more considerate to the lady and to her feelings too. After all, I am sure most of us would like our companions to actually enjoy rather than endure our meetings!
I would implore you to think of the lady too. If in doubt as to what she enjoys, there is a simple remedy: ASK!
Do bare in mind, the whole premise or meeting with an Escort is as follows: money is exchanged for companionship only. Anything else that occurs thereafter is between two CONSENTING adults.
There is the rub: “between two consenting adults”! Ladies do have a say. Yes, one is paying for her time, but this does not give us gents carte blanche! One cannot partake in anything the lady does not wish or it ceases to be consensual and becomes very dangerous ground for the gentleman.
Of the ladies I asked, several said they had asked clients not to return if they had asked them to ease off, but they had not. A lady has the right to work in a safe environment, free from fear and in an atmosphere of respect. I am sure all decent gents will agree with me on this point.
Surely a lady has the right to enjoy herself too? Would you go to work if you endlessly experienced pain and dissatisfaction?
If a lady is left exhausted or sore or in pain afterwards and is unable to work again for a few days, it makes it not only unpleasant for her, but also unviable as a business meeting. Do remember, meeting an Escort is a business arrangement only, nothing more, nothing less.
I am sure it will come as no surprise to most true gentlemen if an elite lady seeks a more rounded meeting experience. Moreover, a gent who displays complete consideration and respect towards the lady will be welcome back, whereas those who do not quite simply will not!