Gentlemen: What is your opinion of ladies who do back-to-back bookings? Is it something you mind? Or does it really not bother you at all?
How do Escorts feel? Some ladies do offer this service where they see several people a day, whereas others see no more than one person a day or a few per week.
It is a topic which vexes some, so what are the “rights” and “wrongs”? I hesitate to say right or wrong for the simple reason any independent operator is in her own business, so it is entirely her prerogative to do what she likes. Whether this is conducive to a long-term business or not is a whole different matter.
For those who work in houses or for an agency, there is a different scenario where the bookings are handled for them and then it is down to the agency or house to determine how they operate.
“Conveyor belt bookings”
Some refer to back-to-back meetings as a “conveyor belt”, which is partially understandable, yet a little harsh in my opinion. Of course there are those who do operate a very rapid turnover and I have experienced some of these myself. However, this does not mean all ladies who see more than one client a day are operating a conveyor belt. It is one of those sweeping generalisations I so despise.
The reality is, not every Punter books a long meeting and some ladies need to see more clients. Also, some ladies charge more than others. It is a simple case of “doing the math”!
I have seen quite a few ladies who do have other clients on the same day. Sometimes it is obvious and can become rushed, whereas more often than not, it is not an issue. Least of all, if it does not impact on me, how a lady chooses to do business is of no concern to me (and none of my damn business!).
As for less favourable experiences, I have had ladies rushing around getting ready a full thirty minutes before I was due to leave, even creating a very unnatural break in proceedings. This is not pleasant and makes one feel anything but valued and a repeat visit becomes a complete no-no. I accept a lady may need to rush from time to time, but to do so with such a large percentage of the meeting remaining is a bit disrespectful.
Other ladies have taken calls during meetings and sometimes it has not been either discreet or subtle. One lady even interrupted the carnal act to talk to her next client, a full hour before our time was due to elapse!
However, this last example is somewhat extreme and very isolated! Does it make it wrong to take calls from other clients? I am easy-going enough to recognise a lady does not have a secretary and cannot be in two places at once. If there is a natural break, with appropriate courtesy, I do not mind a lady taking a call about another meeting.
Let’s be honest, most of us gents will realise it is a business meeting and we are not their only client! Surely that is just being both realistic and showing a certain degree of consideration to a lady. This is done in the hope it will be reciprocated, of course!
Probably the worst experience I had with back-to-back bookings was when I saw a lovely lady on Adultwork (www.adultwork.com). I knew she also worked for a few agencies too, but I saw her directly only.
During one meeting, the agency rang repeatedly. In the end, she asked if I minded if she answered the call. I said it was fine. She came back visibly upset. The agency had told her they had sent a client round, despite their knowing she was already booked. As I really liked her and felt for her in this predicament, I suggested we cut things short and meet again soon, which she was grateful for.
However, as I was getting ready, there was a knock on the door! The client was half an hour early. He had also entered the building without buzzing. Two complete no-nos for Punters! The lady asked him to come back in fifteen minutes.
I gave him five minutes to get out of the way and went to leave, only to find him sitting outside her door! Another complete no-no of Punters meeting!
This was an extremely unfortunate chain of events, but does serve to demonstrate how things can go wrong if insufficient gap is allowed or if gents arrive early or the last client drags his heels and leaves late.
In my opinion there is nothing wrong with a lady who does do back-to-back appointments whatsoever.
It is not the principle which is wrong in some cases, more how the bookings are handled and how much time is allowed between meetings.
As long as there is a sufficient gap and enough time allowed for the lady to prepare and she gives the client her undivided attention, this is fine with me. Equally so, as long as the gent does not feel the appointment is hurried or he is not rushed out at the end this is fine.
However, us gents do have a responsibility here too. If we do not arrive on time, we cannot expect the lady to make up the time at the end. She may, but she is under no obligation to do so.
Then, once our time is up, to drag one’s heels is unacceptable. Some ladies will say it is ok to stay a bit longer, but it is for them to say and not for us gents to take unilateral liberties. If we do, one can expect to be ushered out (which may make a client feel he is being rushed) and possibly not asked to return.
Dare I mention this issue simply comes down to the old etiquette chestnuts of communication between the two parties, respect for one and another and consideration for each others’ time?!
If these are considered more frequently, many issues can simply be avoided.